alright, so there has been a whole fucking wack load of relationship crap, sad girls, and stupid boys lately and i have kinda had enough of it. so just gonna discuss my take on everything to do with this stupid fucking subject.
alright, so i know you fellers out there are a bunch of shy little insecure fucks but in all honesty girls do not want to make the first move. i realize that we want to be considered equal with you guys and shit but come on. do you see what we have grown up around? disney movies, romantic comedies, love songs and all this stupid unrealistic shit. we are looking for a guy who will fight for us, our prince charming, our knight in shinning armour. which gets me on another point. yes, girls are aware that there are guys that have, do or will like them. sometimes enough to chase, but if girls are not attracted to you it makes no difference. it does not mean you are ugly, it means they aren’t attracted to you. they don’t see you that way. does not mean that someone else will. also, don’t back out of the fight for love simply because your heart has been broken before. this goes to both men and women. if you see or meet someone that catches your attention go get them, or at least talk to them. if you don’t you have no fucking right to complain about being single because you didn’t even try. and if you have been put in the friend zone, well shit. that fucking sucks. but in all honesty you should have made your feelings known before hand because otherwise you will just be plopped right in that zone and it’s super hard to get out. i don’t want to hear or see this forever alone crap. because in all honesty it’s stupid, and pathetic cause you do it to yourself. it is not because you’re ugly, it’s not because of your personality, it’s the simple fact of you’re not the one for them, and they are not the one for you.
ladies, stop having such high expectations of relationships and guys. they are not all gonna do the romantic things they do in movies and shit. this is real life, wake the fuck up and see the possibilities right infront of you. stop being a dramatic bitchy fuck and getting upset over stupid things. being on your fucking periode means nothing, i don’t care. bleeding out your vagina for a week does not give you the right to treat your man, your family or your friend or anyone else for that matter like shit. really sick and tired of that fucking excuse. also, i realize ladies you are under this impression that guys should make the move. either it being a idea/impression drilled in your head, or you’re just too fucking scared to be a lady and just go for it. we have fought for so long to have equal rights with men, here is the benefit, you can make the moves now and start love for yourself instead of waiting on the fucking side lines. also, this can go to both men and women, if you complain about them being a huge douche or a huge bitch than you know what that’s what they are and you clearly don’t like them as much as you thought. stop crying yourself to sleep over a love that doesn’t fucking exist. if you spend more time hurting and crying over someone they aren’t right for you. if i am not mistake love is suposed to make you happy. if they leave, don’t go crawling back. it’s degrading, pathetic, you come across as fickle and someone who can’t make up their mind nor stick to your gut. you’re not the one for them, and they are not the one for you.
finally when the girl and guy finally get off their dramatic asses and come to the mutual conclusion to become “steady” as they used to call it. CONGRADUFUCKINGLATIONS. alright first of all, don’t post stupid pictures of you kissing your boyfriend/girlfriend as your profile pictures. let’s be honest here, you’re probably too young to know what love is to be able to stay in a relationship for ever and ever(although there are exceptions) so you know you are just gonna delete them anyways. save yourself the trouble and others the pain of puking every time we see your tongue in your significant other’s mouth. secondly, you got them. you got your guy and you got your girl. now, don’t be a stupid jealous fuck. they are yours so there is no excuse to be jealous of every person they talk to. if someone flirts with them while you’re there make it known to them that they are yours in a honest and kind way. take it as a compliment, your with a pretty hot feller/chick there my friend. and if you get hit on while your significant other is not there, don’t flirt back, create the boundary lines right away. also don’t cheat, if you are growing sexual and emotional attractions to someone that are so strong you are thinking you might become unfaithful. organize your priorities and if you can’t pass up on this other person, break up with your significant other. don’t be the whore who cheats. also, give it a few weeks after your break up to get together with someone else. it’s just the right thing to do. one of the most important things and honestly i have been hearing a lot lately through sobs of my girl friends, APRECIATE YOUR GIRLFRIEND/BOYFRIEND! i can not stress this enough, you got them yes but that does not mean you get to kick back, relax and stop putting in the effort. otherwise you’re gonna loose them. being in a relationship is hard, and if you want it to work you have to both put in the effort. you have to comunicate, you have to be honest, you have to want them and want the relationship. and honestly, if it didn’t work out. don’t linger on it. if you were meant to be, you would still be together. don’t let bitterness of a bad breakup and a broken heart be the reason of the lack of love in your life. and don’t complain, it’s not attractive. like i have been saying through out this entire stupid fucking post: you’re not the one for them, and they are not the one for you.